Keeping It In The Family or Brother Husbands

Foreword:  

At some point, I'll find myself talking to people just out of curiosity and a lot of times, just because I want to see how far down the rabbit hole things go. Here's one of the many conversations that have resulted due to my boredom and/or curiosity - S

Words of wisdom:  Curiosity killed the chat

Meat & Potatoes:

Ginger Twin (GT):  Hey, I saw you looked at my profile.  Are you interested in a polyandrous relationship?

Me:  I’m not entirely sure that I know what that is….

GT:  Well, it’s one woman and multiple men.  I wouldn’t be sleeping with anyone else, and neither would be any of the men you are with.  My brother and I used to date this one woman and she turned us onto the lifestyle.

Me:  I just don’t understand the specifics, like why you think it works and are interested in it.  Benefits of that type of relationship...etc

GT:  Well, it just makes sense when you think about it.  Women naturally can handle more guys.  Women don’t have to stop once they’re pleased.  Men can only go a few times and then need a break in between.  Also, if women weren’t supposed to have more than one partner, then they wouldn’t be able to make a baby from any man they choose.  So...are you interested or just asking questions?

Me:  Honestly, I don’t know.  I just don’t know much about it and Wiki isn’t super helpful lol

GT:  lol I understand

Me:  So, with me being bi, how does that factor in?  Also, would it be like Big Love, only with the roles reversed?  Sorry if these seem stupid, just trying to wrap my head around it.

GT:  Yeah, just like that.  1 woman with probably 2 or 3 men to start off, maybe more if you think that you want more

Me:  How did you get turned on to this lifestyle?

GT:  Three years ago, I had a girlfriend but she changed her mind and just wanted one guy.

Me:  Ohh, so it’s not quite an open relationship.  It’s basically like polyamory, but only she has multiple guys.

GT:  Yes

Me:  Interesting.  What made you decide that this was the right lifestyle for you?  Did she turn you on to it?

GT:  Yes

Me:  Cool.  So what do you get out of sharing the one woman?

GT:  She started fucking my brother, but they broke up since then.  I started dating her, then she told me women have a right to more than one man.  She started to fuck my brother and said it was the right thing.  Then, broke off with just them dating, then they broke up.  She didn’t want long-term, but I decided long-term is something I want.

Me:  Gotcha.  So what do you like about the lifestyle?

GT:  She broke my brother’s heart so I’m’ not sure if he would do it again.

Me:  I’m sorry to hear that about your brother.  I’m assuming she broke yours too.  That’s never fun.

GT:  Well, we got along great.  She would stay home, not work and when I got off work I would be able to spend time with her, sometimes...one of us would have to wait, but it wasn’t that bad.  It hurt but, I knew there was another chance or someone that might want this.

Me:  Yeah, there’s people who want pretty much any kind of relationship scenario you can think of lol

GT:  What do you want?

Me:  I don’t know.  Some guy wanted to be cuckholded before and I wasn’t into humiliating him about it.  So I was making sure this wasn’t the same thing.

GT:  It’s not.  The woman is in charge, but she has several men.  No humiliation, just love.

Me:  Hrm, I dunno, it sounds cool, but I would have to really care about the people to want to do that.  

GT:  Yes you would.  I also want kids and so might the next guy.  If you got my brother into it, I know he does.

Me:  I’m not sure if I want kids.

GT:  Oh, that’s a deal breaker for me.  I just want to be honest about it.

Me:  Yeah, sorry lol  Good luck in your hunt though :-)

GT:  Ok, thanks.  Later.

Reflection:  

Did...I just get rejected by potentially TWO gingers who want to be brother husbands because I don’t know if I want kids?!  o.O